If We Were Having Coffee: The Graduation Edition

If We Were Having Coffee is forming into a mid-monthly ritual. I love doing these more personal posts- don’t worry I’m bound to talk about books and TV somewhere- so I don’t have to save everything for my end of the month wrap ups. I’ve been embracing blogging and reading so much lately, and it’s been nice to reflect lately since these past two months certainly haven’t been easy for anyone.

If we were having coffee, I’d probably be sticking to iced coffee. By the time I make my way downstairs in the morning, the coffee that my parents brewed earlier in the morning isn’t remotely hot anymore. In that case, I just grab some ice and some caramel macchiato creamer.

IMG_2733If we were having coffee, I’d talk about graduating from college! Graduating from college can be bittersweet to begin with. While still bittersweet (maybe even more this year), it’s just plain weird. Since I finished up the second half of the semester completely online, it feels so bizarre to be done. Nevertheless, I graduated with my B.A. in English and Media & Communications with a minor in Holocaust Studies, and was inducted in Phi Beta Kappa!

That being said, if we were having coffee, I’d give you an inside scoop about what a virtual graduation is actually like. Like almost all, if not every college senior, in the U.S. , I did not have an in-person commencement or any IRL form of senior activities, ceremonies, rites of passage, and goodbyes for the past two months. My in-person commencement is currently scheduled for early August, but since stay-at-home orders have been extended into June in my state, there may be a chance that the ceremony will be pushed to the fall. However, my school wanted to commemorate our original commencement date and decided to hold a virtual ceremony. I’ve had an honor society induction and a few senior toasts online.

Although I know everyone has great intentions, the online replacements tend to make me more sad than happy because it just reminds of what should have been. This made me apprehensive going into the virtual commencement, but it was much more organized than I had imagined. The speeches had been prerecorded, while certain segments were still live. While they scrolled through the graduates’ names, many of our professors and faulty had shout-out videos! My family also decided to honor my graduation that day. I really appreciated their at-home festivities – my sisters and mom made me an at home cap and gown made from construction paper and a tablecloth and a hand-written diploma.

neverhaceIf we were having coffee, I’d tell that you need to watch Never Have I Ever on Netflix as soon as possible. I finished binge-watching it after I posted my April Wrap Up- no worries, I’ll probably end up including it in my May one anyway! Never Have I Ever  was the perfect blend of everything that I want in a ‘teen’ show. After the sudden passing of her father, high school sophomore Devi is willing to do anything she can to get her life back to normal- and by that, Devi really wants to become popular and date the hottest guy in school. This show was so, so funny and you really grow to become attached to all of the characters. The last episode left me smiling with tears rolling down my face.

If we were having coffee, I’d tell you about my subscription to Book of the Month. From podcasts to blogs to Instagram, Book of the Month has been taking up so many of my social media channels. You likely know that because of the public library being closed, I’ve been buying way more books than usually lately. One of those books? Emily Henry’s Beach Read. Beach Read is one of my most anticipated books of 2020, and I knew I wanted to get a copy ASAP. I considered pre-ordering a copy, but when I saw it was a BOTM pick (in hardcover as always), I figured I’d give the subscription service a chance. I’m honestly debating if I’ll keep my subscription because #brokecollegestudentlife but I’m tempted to try it out at least over the summer.

If we were having coffee, I’d of course have to mention at least one book I’ve read in May. I know I’m late on the hype train, but so far my favorite has been Well Met by Jen DeLuca! Speaking of hyped reads, I also finally read Josh and Hazel’s Guide to Not Dating and totally see why this it is many readers’ favorite Christina Lauren book.

Twenty YoungIf we were having coffee, I’d tell you about my podcast, Twenty Young. Admist final assignments and getting sick of doing puzzles, one of my best friends and I decided to create a podcast all about what it’s like being in your twenties. It’s been a really fun way for us to be creative and also stay connected during this time. We publish new episodes every Wednesday on Spotify and Apple Podcasts (and honestly whatever platform you use to listen to podcasts!).

If we were having coffee I’d probably keeping talking about TV. The Parks and Recreation reunion special aired at the end of the April, and it was very cute and made my P&R heart so happy. This month, I blew through the second season of the Israeli Baker and The Beauty on Amazon Prime, which sent me straight to Google after watching the finale to see if their was a third season. I also binge-watched the latest and fourth season of Workin’ Moms on Netflix in two sittings. I’m so bummed that there were only 8 episodes because I love this show so much!


What have you been reading and watching lately? How are you? What activities or hobbies have you picked during stay at home? Share in the comments!

5 thoughts on “If We Were Having Coffee: The Graduation Edition

  1. Congratulations 😄🎉!! Graduating is so bittersweet, especially with the times right now and everything being virtual 💖. It’s nice that you’ve been able to enjoy a lot of other things lately too though—I really need to check out that Parks and Recs episode!! Also, that’s so cool that you started a podcast! I’ll definitely check it out when I get a chance 🙂.

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  2. Congratulations on graduating college – WHOO HOO! *Throws confetti*

    I can’t even imagine how anticlimactic an online, virtual graduation must have felt.We wait our whole lives to finally get to those classic rites of passage. My brother’s in the very same boat so I get that you’re probably feeling a lot of emotions. BUT… you get a seriously cool story to tell your kids one day [“let me tell you about the time where the world almost ended and we were all trapped inside..”]. I know it’s not the same, but when it’s all over, you might even be able to plan a post-graduation party.

    Sending you a BIG social distance approved hug! ❤ ❤ ❤

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